If you have ever been friends with someone that makes you feel like you’re not enough, then you can relate with what I’m talking about in this post. Having a friend or spouse that you constantly have to dim your light around them to make them feel good is one of the most exhausting type …
When people are asked the recipe to a good marriage, a lot mention communication. They fail to qualify it as “effective communication”. In communicating effectively, the message has to be sent in a way that the receiver understands and can process it. The receiver then responds so that the sender can get a feedback and …
#ourlovestoryBy popular demand😁Na you ask for am. It is a long one. You know me and my threads.I come from the city where our parents always like us to marry from our hometown. Ilu to jina sina, to sunmo alijana (The city that is far from hell but close to heaven). My parents and TJ’s …
The greatest gift you can give your child is to be the best parent you can be. Show them love, care and reprimand them when necessary. When children have good examples as parents or caregivers, it boosts their morale and self confidence. It then becomes difficult for them to allow others to treat them shabbily …
Of all the reasons I’ve heard in life why a woman did not end up with a particular man or vice versa….this has got to be the one that takes the cake. Wait for it…”I didn’t date you because you’re a fine boy/girl and you people break hearts”What a laughable statement. Very funny something. O …
For doctors. By a doctor.It is animal nature generally to desire companionship. And we all know man is also a higher animal. This is why despite all the negative stories about marriage and love out there, more people are still getting married. People are still craving relationships and as old ones are breaking, new ones …
The family is the basic unit of the society. Little wonder that any structural problems in this unit often leads to fundamental problems. We tend to underestimate the impact that the family has on the overall outcome of the society. When I say family, it can be a single parent home or with both parents …
The greatest gift that you can have through nature is the family you’re born into. The greatest gift that you can give yourself is the family that you make. The former cannot be helped as you cannot choose the family you’re born into; that is completely left to God. You are the architect of the …
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I joke around a lot. But I’m a very observant person. I look at older couples and I see the ones that have had a great marriage. By their actions and inactions. By their words both spoken and unspoken. I see the ones that have had probably a tumultuous relationship. Talking with some patients also …
